All of a sudden a group of ' friends ' that you thought were sweethearts in your life just unfollowed you on social media.
The truth is, until today I still don't know why.
So the story goes like this. One day on our blogosphere, I was being pulled into a controversy - known as the Gushcloud Expose, being one of the ' target ' from the leak of a whatsapp conversation between me & Mister Betrayer.
Moments after this, I had 4 bitches that unfollowed me which happens to be in the same clique.
Before this incident, I thought we were all cool. I can swear to buddha, that I've never ever said anything bad about any of them. Despite some of them famously known for being a bitch.
Most of them, I've known them through work in the media industry. I guess we were not friends? But ya, I treated them like my friends and this is the kind of treatment I get.
I've no idea what Mister Betrayer had poisoned you all, like how he ' tricked ' me into leaking out information from my company. I just want to tell you this :
' Thank you for being such an asshole in my life. '
I've learned so much from you guys.
Acting like a friend, and backstabbing me behind.
I've learn that there are so many superficial people in the world.
Looking back, I almost gave up my clique that are with me by my side now to join the 5 of you.
Luckily, we have no fate to be friends or else I would've lost these true best friends.
Now let's move on to my friendship problems.
I once had a big quarrel with one of my bestie now. We did not talk for 6 months. One day magically I liked her photo on Facebook and we became good friends till now.
I'm 22 now and feeling puzzled. Over the course of these 2 years, I've been through ups and downs. I've made new friends, and also walked away from some.
My friends are doing well with their jobs, some are getting married and some even have their BTO flats coming their way.
Which leads to me wondering if I will become alone? Am I feeling lonely or I'm just trying my best to fit into others.
I've come to this age, it's adulthood. I do cherish those lovely times I had with my friends but we all know that we have not much time left with one another.
In a few years time, they are going to have kids, going to have a family. They will all be busy with their lives and so do I.....
Are we not best friends anymore?
Why are we not spending time together anymore?
If you're asking yourself these questions, you're actually falling into the same state of being over worried.
Life has many chapters to it. When a chapter closed another one ascends. If we are always worrying about losing things, then we can never gain new things.
We have all walked away from our pasts, but our friendships and bonds will always be there. We don't have to be clingy, don't have to be texting or calling one another every single day to stay close.
We can call up to meet for dinner once in awhile, talk about life, update one another. All we could wish for will be those times when we were still close and chatting daily.
I guess this is how we grow up. Close friends should wish one another good luck. Today, I'm happy that my friends are doing well. We may not see the quarrels and arguments, but yay, they are happy and so am I.
Just like any other student in Singapore, I’ve
also went through mySingapore internship. Back in my
poly days, we were all hoping for a good internship, a good company and I was
really blessed to be able to intern at Tecmo Koei.
Many of you who are not in the digital media
industry might not know this. But actually Koei is an international gaming
company, which so happens
to have a branch in Singapore, fortunately. Koei did famous games like Dynasty
Warriors & Fist of the North star.
In which I was really lucky to be part of the
CG Team in the making of a card game-app for Hokuto no Ken.
The game has already been released in Japan. I
don’t know what to say but feel grateful that I was given this opportunity to
intern in Koei. I was given tasks which are not like – pouring coffee or like
easy touch up jobs. Whereas we were given like main graphics effects to do and
treated like an employee rather than an intern.
People there were very nice and I had a very
bad encounter with this senior 3D Modeler but well. I overcome it and did not
quarrel with him, in which My superior praised me of having a high EQ. HA HA
HA!!! (I happy not because my EQ high, means that idiot’s EQ low LOL)
Learning from a company as an intern was a very
big milestone in my life. Compared to working part time jobs, I’ve never taken
a 8-5pm (Office Hours) job before. My superiors were like angels siol.
P/S : Photo taken back in 2013, looking fat & shitty*
Really lucky and I remembered the HR was saying
that we could wear anything to work, including slippers and shorts even bikinis
My not so lucky friend Xiehang had to wear full
formal and cannot use his phone in during his internship.
I felt so lucky, really! Out of all the internships in Singapore. I was
given this great opportunity and it really adds on to my portfolio. I wish I
could show you the works that I’ve done but unfortunately, I don’t have any of
the files anymore. LOL (Don’t know where I threw them)
To sum it up, an internship was like the climax of a poly
student’s lifespan in school. It’s
like the finale and graduating show you’ve been waiting for ages. I also know
that unlike my school, which is the great Nanyang Poly, which offers students
and find internships for them, some other school’s don’t really have this
My dear friend Ebel had to find her own
internship company by herself, and she didn’t even know how to start out with.
Recently I was exposed to this new website calledwww.stroff.com
which also offers internship opportunities other than part time jobs.
I know some of you might already know that this
is an advertorial, which I would not hide, yes indeed it is an advertorial but
this is a helpful advertorial to help you guys find your career perspective and
opportunities, and I would say ‘YOU’RE WELCOME’ HAHHA
It doesn’t hurt to click on the URL to read on the website. For as far as I know, Stroff.com is run as a social project and
is not making any money, and is funded by well-wishers who share the vision and
objective of the portal's founding team.
So what are you waiting for? Go get some life experiences now!!
Seeya in my next post!
*You can read my blog post about "Part Time Jobs" Here!
As all of you know that, I’m at the age whereby I have to start working soon! My adult life is hitting! I’m 22 and Army is coming to an end in the next few months or so, I will need to find myself a job in order to carry on with life (bo bian this is the life cycle) Time to go google for “part time jobs Singapore” ahbo I have no more rice to eat liao!
Speaking of jobs, I had a couple of part time jobs in Singaporethroughout my 22 years of life. Which lead back to my first part time job when I was only 15! (HAHA not even legal to work but yeah)
My first job was being a retail assistant, in which I was top sales for 6 times! Coming out to work at such an early stage really gives me a lot of experiences and this nature me into whom I am today.
This really brings back a lot of memories! Working was so fun and although my pay was only like what? S$5/hour! (I guess Mcdonalds pay pretty dam well nowadays, still got CPF contribution one)
Looking for a job last time was pretty damm easy – I worked for NATAs fair before to give out flyers for one day for this stupid company. I walk until cannot walk anymore and suffered like this for the next few days in the end the stupid company don’t want to pay me – telling me that I wasn’t present because I did not sign my attendance (KNN the manager told me no need to sign) In the end my uncle called them and said if they don’t pay me, We will sue them. So they agreed to pay.
You see! Out there in this modern world got so many scamming companies.
So easy to ask you to work but in the end never pay you.
Another personal experience also recently, company never pay, late payment, late late late until now also haven’t pay yet. Keep saying will pay. NATO (No action talk only)
Also as time pass, recruiters are born to help us secure our rice bowl in which my bestie- Anton had a really bad experience.
He was told to sign a 6 months contract, to work as (I forgot the job title but nothing close to what he thought it would be)
He went to the job on his first day…. And TADAH! He got himself a construction worker’s job. Literally wearing helmet, boots like the photo shown above. He was only 17/18 leh! Poor him! He had to suffer for the next couples of days until I told him to just break the contract and disappear!
This website targets its audience which are – YOU,(Youths, Tertiary Students and Young Adults) looking for internships or part time jobs.
What I like about stroff.com because they share this vision to help the young generations (which is ME! YAY!)
Likewise, working is really fun to me especially part time jobs…
Memories, Friendships, Life experiences are born because of that! This is also why I encourage young people to take up part time jobs! Can earn money leh! Then you will know how important money is already!
I guess I have come to the end of this blog post, like wise it doesn’t hurt to click on the URL! You won’t know maybe your future awaits there!
Until then! If you find a job on that portal and took your salary, You can treat me go high tea to thank me. HAHAHAHA
I know its been like 2weeks since I last blogged about something but you know I was pretty busy with filming lately and didn't even have time to update my Instagram with photos!
So that day I went to gardens by the bay for the third time and did a shoot with my girls. So here are the photos :
For people who think that ' oh you can only pay to go into the flower doom for a good picture, you're WRONG! haha A lot of the photos were taken outside. and like this grassy place that we took photos at is actually outside and its free haha just need to find your way to the specific places to take photos can liao!!
Photo quality isn't that good this time cos even the editing part I just like quickly edit and post here liao HAHA. So we went into flower doom and it was having like the goat display thingy nothing much to take but managed to take one with the house.
Okay that's the end of this boring post basically. HAHAHA there will be updates on this post soon! watch out for our new video :